A New Year list of Resolutions worth keeping and answering. . .

Ripped from :
http://www.lifeway.com/lwc/article_main_page/0,1703,A%253D155952%2526M%253D50088,00.html

My wife sent these to me at the first of this week. I’ve been meaning to post them but just now got around to it. . . That is my number one thing to work on A Round To It. .
🙂

Questions for a New Year
Printable version of Questions for a New Year
Written by Don Whitney

KANSAS CITY, Mo. (BP) — Once, when the people of God had become careless in their relationship with Him, the Lord rebuked them through the prophet Haggai. “Consider your ways!” (Haggai 1:5) he declared, urging them to reflect on some of the things happening to them and to evaluate their slipshod spirituality in light of what God had told them.

Even those most faithful to God occasionally need to pause and think about the direction of their lives. It’s so easy to bump along from one busy week to another without ever stopping to ponder where we’re going and where we should be going.

The beginning of a new year is an ideal time to stop, look up and get our bearings. For starters, here are 10 questions to ask prayerfully in the presence of God:

1.
What’s one thing you could do this year to increase your enjoyment of God?
2.
What’s the most humanly impossible thing you will ask God to do this year?
3.
What’s the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your family life this year?
4.
In which spiritual discipline do you most want to make progress this year, and what will you do about it?
5.
What is the single biggest time-waster in your life, and what will you do about it this year?
6.
What is the most helpful new way you could strengthen your church?
7.
For whose salvation will you pray most fervently this year?
8.
What’s the most important way you will, by God’s grace, try to make this year different from last year?
9.
What one thing could you do to improve your prayer life this year?
10.
What single thing that you plan to do this year will matter most in 10 years? In eternity?

In addition to these questions, here are 21 more to help you “Consider your ways.” Think on the entire list at one sitting, or answer one question each day for a month.

11.
What’s the most important decision you need to make this year?
12.
What area of your life most needs simplifying, and what’s one way you could simplify in that area?
13.
What’s the most important need you feel burdened to meet this year?
14.
What habit would you most like to establish this year?
15.
Who do you most want to encourage this year?
16.
What is your most important financial goal this year, and what is the most important step you can take toward achieving it?
17.
What’s the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your work life this year?
18.
What’s one new way you could be a blessing to your pastor (or to another who ministers to you) this year?
19.
What’s one thing you could do this year to enrich the spiritual legacy you will leave to your children and grandchildren?
20.
What book, in addition to the Bible, do you most want to read this year?
21.
What one thing do you most regret about last year, and what will you do about it this year?
22.
What single blessing from God do you want to seek most earnestly this year?
23.
In what area of your life do you most need growth, and what will you do about it this year?
24.
What’s the most important trip you want to take this year?
25.
What skill do you most want to learn or improve this year?
26.
To what need or ministry will you try to give an unprecedented amount this year?
27.
What’s the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your commute this year?
28.
What one biblical doctrine do you most want to understand better this year, and what will you do about it?
29.
If those who know you best gave you one piece of advice, what would they say? Would they be right? What will you do about it?
30.
What’s the most important new item you want to buy this year?
31.
In what area of your life do you most need change, and what will you do about it this year?

The value of many of these questions is not in their profundity, but in the simple fact that they bring an issue or commitment into focus. For example, just by articulating which person you most want to encourage this year, you will be more likely to remember to encourage that person than if you hadn’t considered the question.

If you’ve found these questions helpful, you might want to put them someplace – in a day planner, PDA, calendar, bulletin board, etc. – where you can review them more frequently than once a year.

So let’s evaluate our lives, make plans and goals, and live this new year with biblical diligence, remembering that, “The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage” (Proverbs 21:5). But in all things let’s also remember our dependence on our King who said, “Apart from Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5).

Don Whitney is associate professor of spiritual formation at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and author of Simplify Your Spiritual Life (NavPress, 2003).

You know he is right about that!

Wired News Article

How Sony Hijacked half a million user’s systems and the Computer Security industry mostly yawned. . . .

I hadn’t thought about this much in this light before. Mainly I was mad at Sony for introducing such draconian DRM restricitions, that harmed systems in such a way as to cause instability and system crashes. Also, I thought it was crummy how the company that made the software stole GPL code and included it in this criminal tool. The act of using GPL code in this way violates the license and automatically forfeits the use of such code by the company or individual that does so.

These technical mumblings are a lot about who controls what you see and do, a corporation so eager to prove all their customers to be criminals that they became the criminals.

Great Britian and the United States prohibit malicious an unintential breaking into Computer Systems, this is just what Sony did, they broke in and opened up a huge gaping hole into your system for hackers and others to run right through. This isn’t any different if the local construction company that makes specialized windows came in and knocked a huge hole into the side of your house, then they found a way to cover it up where you couldn’t see it. But the hole was still there, you were still exposed to the elements, thieves and the local neighborhood alley cats.

It doesn’t matter if they justify it and say, their windows are being copied by some of their customers, so they had to open the whole so they could check in and make sure their windows weren’t being copied. The hole is still there, you the home owner are still vulnerable. . . .

Fortunately the Builder is coming in with a fix to patch up the whole the Window installer put out and things should get better. . .

But whew. . . better be careful about becoming a criminal to defeat the potential criminals. . .

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, it’s never a good idea to
1. Sue your customers
2. Assume all your customer’s are lying theives.

C

Right?

A Treatise:

What is right anymore? It seems that what is right in todays world isn’t based on any set standard. It seems that your right may be wrong to the next person. And that seems okay and even acceptable and a likeable solution to many. After all lets just let live and let live, right?

So that begs the current question facing Texans? Is Prop 2 right for Texas? Is it in the State’s interest and the People of Texas’ interest to define marriage as “in this state consists only of the union of one man and one woman” Well, it seems we have as many answers as we have people in Texas. . . many see it from differing perspectives. Isn’t that the way of it?

So my thought begins what is it that makes right Right? Where do the boundry lines get drawn between what is simply irritating and what is criminally or morally abject filth?

What is our compass and or plumb line to discern the depths or the measuring stick to ascertain what is right in our society?

How flexible should the plumb line, compass or measuring stick be?

As I see it we have 3 choices on where we get our measuring stick:
A. Our Family, Mom, Dad, Step Parents, Grand parents, Aunts Uncles, Mom and Mom etc
B. Societies Laws: Texas and the United States have multitude thousands of laws and they have arisen from particular concerns and needs all their own along with the changing tides these have been modfied or re-interpreted through time, but they do Govern current legitimacy.
C. Our Faith.

Thoughts on each:
A. Parents and Family seem like a good start? I mean what better place to get the guidelines of Right and Wrong, after all they are the first arbitrators of such decisions?
B. Laws, well we all have to live by these so that seems like a good place to continue, I mean you gotta live within the law right? 🙂
C. Our Faith, well that seems like a reasonable thing to do your faith and beliefs must be based on something right? What does your faith teach, what are the foundation stones and principles, surely you can get good guidance here.

I think all three places are good to get your plumb line from to begin principles for living and move foward with a well balanced and meaningful life. I guess the question then becomes where does the plumb line come from that your family, our state and civil laws and our faith base the rules on?

Each one would be different? I mean surely. . . My family would depend on their parents and their faith to steer and guide them along with advice from friends and associates.

The Law is based on local and state needs along with our State and US Constitution then English Common Law and finally based upon Hammurabi and the Ten Commandments.

Faith:
The boundry line for my faith is the Word of God and the Spirit of the Living Lord guiding my heart from within.

So what does my faith, my family and civil law indicate about Prop 2 . . .Yes

Prop 2 doesn’t exist in a vacumn, it exists because things that are fundamental to the procreation of our species, and our nation are dependent upon certain fundamentals being established to protect the smallest and most innocent of new lives.

When Judges reinterpret law to grant rights and privelges never before granted, and usurp the common constrainst placed upon them by the people and the Legislature, then reactive measures must be taken, the Constitutional Amendments defining Marriage as what it already is the Union of a man and a woman for the protection and procreation of the nation and the species. This is the reaction to protect every state, which is necessary because our Constitution provides Equal Access under the law to every citizen of the United States no matter if they are from California, Washington, Texas or Massachussets. Without defining the and drafting Amendments, each State would be forced by Judicial fiat of one state to accept a new and destructive definition of marriage that is harmful and incremental to continuing the devastation and degradation of the Nuclear family.

Quiet. . .

Wow, its finally quiet here. . . the Disaster Recovery Business is done for now and things are going to return to normal. . .

Maybe a little slow for a bit but it should be peaceful. . .

I think it will be nice as long as its not an extended silence. . .

😉
C

Hurricane Wilma

Ugh. . Hurricane Wilma. . .

Just when I thought it was safe, Hurricane Wilma knocked out power to Boca Raton Florida and it looks like the backup generators at my Hosting Provider’s data center have crapped out. . . now everybody’s down, but me I moved my main site over to another host temporarily but all my clients are hard down till this is resolved. . .

what a pain. . .

C

(1st Reverse Post from Xanga since August)

What to expect when you're expecting?

I have no idea. . . but here we are. Last week at our weekly men’s prayer breakfast I shared an Unspoken request. . .

Unknowingly, one of the men prayed specifically and urgently for that request an my family. As I listened to the prayer, I smiled and tears came to my eyes, knowing that only an Incredibly Awesome God that I serve could have prompted my brother’s heart to pray with such ferver. This week, after I shared the testimony and how I was touched and blessed by his prayer last week. He mentioned that he somehow knew Wed two days ago that we were expecting. We hadn’t told anyone at Church yet, but just the same he knew. . .

🙂 What an Awesome God we serve. There is something powerful when the Spirit touches our spirit and communicates the love and joy before it is verbally spoken that makes this reality of a small new life coming into this world all the more special. . .

Go God. . .

C

Visit a park, enjoy what nature has to offer . . . no no no scratch that

That was my chinese fortune cookie today. . .

but I scratch that and change it to enjoy nature that God has created just for you. . .

just for me.

and I need it this week . . .

We now have over 200 temporary agents and Beaumont corporate employees for a displaced company in our offices. . .

That means lots and lots of work for me and all our staff. . . don’t get me wrong work is great, but wow. . .

It has been crazy around here. . . Hurricane Rita brought in a whole lot of crazy and its not supposed to get better for a couple more weeks. . .

cyl
C

PS big news you’ll see here soon. . .

Too Good not to Steal. . .

From Ronnie Whitehead’s Blog
Brazos Pointe Fellowship

I don’t normally take complete posts from other bloggers, but this was really good. What do you think?

Need vs. Call

Is it a need? Or is it a call from God?

I was at a Small Groups Conference, not long ago, and a statement was made that, at that time, passed over my head and into a “I’ll look at that later” file. It’s one of those things that you hear, you shake your head, and say, “I knew that.” But the weight of it doesn’t hit until later on.

Here’s the statement that was made in context of seeing the vast numbers of needs around us every day:

“The NEED does not constitute the CALL. There are always way too many needs for me to meet.”

This really puts some pressure on me in one regard, but takes a lot of pressure off of me in others. I think we spend way too much time “accessing” needs, and way too little time “accessing” the call of God on our lives. The most recent opportunity has been all of this disaster relief from Hurricane Katrina. What an unbelievable amount of needs. Do those needs demand a true accessing? Yes! It’s a tragedy that has wrecked people’s lives. Do we need to be involved in it? Yes! Am I? Yes!

There’s a story that happened in the Bible surrounding Jesus, His disciples and a woman. This woman, in Matthew 26, came to Jesus and broke a very expensive vial of perfume over His feet and wiped it with her hair. The disciples tried to rebuke for wasting such a valuable commodity, but saying that the “need” was to sell that perfume and give the money to the poor. Jesus then turned and rebuked the disciples by making a shocking statement in vs. 10 when He said, “Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. The poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me… wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.”

Wow!

What did she do that was so amazing? I don’t want to steal any thunder from this weekend’s message at BPF, but let me end by saying this. The important thing is that we stay close to God and listen for His instructions; from His Word and from His Spirit that lives inside of us. Hearing Him, and obeying Him is the key. I have to continually ask myself, “Am I following the needs, or am I following the call of God on my life?” The good thing is, often times, those two intersect.

posted by Ronnie Whitehead @ 9:15 AM 0 comments

Food –

So over the past 10 months or so my wife and I have lost somewhere in the neighborhood of 80lbs. It makes quite the difference, we feel better, look better and both recieve compliments.

On the down side we both need new clothes. . . 😉 fortunately I have a few new outfits from the w/e before last. . . It’s amazing how the weight has made a difference in people’s perceptions. . .
Now we have a goal to move to excercise and lose a few more pounds to keep an even keel.

This is the least we’ve weighed since College. ..

I thought about this after seeing an article link to Hardee’s Big Burger

wow, that does look good, doesn’t go in my new lifestyle diet at all, but perhaps just one. . .

nahh. . . too big, plus I have no idea where the nearest Hardee’s is. . .
🙂

later,
C